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on our research spread over 4 years and discussions with
as many as 5,000 women and men all over the world, we
have tried to distill the key messages in our book "Flat,
but proud". We have already
discussed how you can wear some creatively designed tops
and blouses to invite special attention to
yourself.
Almost all of these ideas have been
supported by men too. There is one caveat,
though. Wear at your own risk of being considered
too attractive by jealous women and old-fashioned men.
While
only a few years ago, it was considered tacky to show
your bra peeking through your dress, it is in fact
a different world now. Even letting your panties
or thong show is not a big deal anymore and hardly
anyone even comments about it in major parts of the
world. (Related:
Backless lingerie)
When we summarized our findings, we
discovered that letting your brassiere show was among
the top five ideas suggested by women. If
possible, one could either wear a sheer top (while
identical colors are more common, you might want to
consider contrasting the colors, for example, a black
bra under a white
blouse) or wear a blouse or
gown that allows
natural exhibition of the skin or the bra. For instance,
spaghetti strap tops and dresses or ones with low
necklines.
Our
model Isadora Marshall demonstrates four different
styles here:
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Wear a sheer blouse that allows your bra to be clearly visible without any effort. In this particular photo, the model wears a
black chiffon blouse with a white bra that shines when light reflects on it. While this is a perfect combination for a date or a trip to the local bar, you can wear the exact outfit with a jacket and no one would know what you are wearing inside unless you decide to give them a peek.
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Select a dress that can be typically worn without a bra. However, you can create some excitement in the party by actually wearing a delicately
embroidered bra and letting everyone take a peek at it
(take a look at
Susan Atwell in bra top). Make sure that you thank all those who dare to praise not only your dress but your bra as well.
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A
nightwear with a contrast. The model wears a
black babydoll with a
red
bra. Both black and red are great colors for the bedroom and you can reverse the colors if you feel so.
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Wear a black
men's tie with a
white shirt over a black bra and leave a few buttons
undone. (Related:
Passion bra and thong) Recommended links: Braless
Ponchos
Show
underwear at a theme party With
or without bra style tips
Leak proof panties |
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