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How to help a mature woman become confident

Tips on getting rid of hang-up about age

Greg has fallen in love with a woman who is 18 years older than him. While he loves her and the age difference is not an issue for him, his girlfriend is very uncomfortable about it. "She just can't relax with me and is very conscious in public. I think she is insecure in a way and tries to not go all the way. What kind of advice should I give to her or what should I do? I love her the way she is and want to even spend the rest of my life with her," he writes.

Fortunately I have had many opportunities to also help the women in these cases. These mature women cannot comprehend that such relationships are real. Nobody knows how Demi Moore reacted to advances from Ashton Kutcher but many women have poorer body image as they age and are always afraid that the man would leave her for someone younger - leaving her heartbroken.

The key to your success will be to build an emotional bond with her and patiently help her raise her self esteem. Women have lot of hangups about their age and bodies - they care too much about things that men don't even think about. If your genuine love and commitment is reflected to her in your behavior, she will see what you mean - that you are serious, that you love her inner beauty, and that you would have chosen a younger woman rather than her if that is what you wanted.

Like any relationship this is going to be tough, but if you do like her, I am positive that she can have the patience to see her own inner beauty that you are attracted to. You must also praise her regularly to build her confidence and communicate with her about your feelings. To win a woman's heart, building trust is important. Once she trusts you, she will believe everything you say. Until then, she might consider it just flattery.

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