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Indian woman meets American woman
Story of a woman who finds real romance with a colleague

By Anjali Gautam  

During my 22 years in the job, I thought I was the only permanent part of the establishment. I learned how to make the system work so that I would never have to return to India from New York. I got so good at manipulating the system and interpreting the rules to my advantage that it was hard to dislodge me. I gradually moved up the ladder and was hoping that I would retire as a Director. 

My husband had built a successful business in imported parts for Japanese cars. We were able to buy our own house in the suburbs, which we rented out so that the rent paid for the mortgage and there would still be money left every year. I lived walking distance from the office in an apartment paid for by my employer.

The devastating news came to me in an internal memo delivered to me through the inter-office mail from New Delhi. The head office had made a decision to directly recruit officer level staff from outside apart from promoting from within. For many jobs that did not require handling of sensitive data, for example, banking with the local governments and businesses, the company was also going to allow non-Indians to compete for jobs in its offices overseas. The move was touted as a way to reduce cost, improve quality of staff, and allow non-critical jobs to be staffed through local hiring. I had not been able to pass the internal exam for promotion the three times I was allowed to take it but I was now approaching my required 6 years of service in the position so that I could be promoted anyway. It seems that these new rules would hold me back. The officer-level position would have entitled me to higher compensation and benefits. I would have also become eligible for a 3-bedroom apartment - something that my whole family was looking forward to. With two teenagers in the family, we desperately wanted a bigger place to stay. When I talked to my peers in New Delhi, the outrage was even more intense. Their hopes were dashed after years of monotonous work in drab offices. They consoled me by telling me that at least I was in New York with a much better life than any one of them. All because of some dirty office politics.

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We were all watching the developments very carefully. To make the matters worse, I was even asked to manage the written exam and interviews for hiring in New York.  Surprisingly, many Americans were interested in working for the bank. It was painful to watch as I orchestrated the demise of my own hopes. On one hand I felt that I should work hard so that I could get the promotion based on the exam, but at the same time I felt discouraged to even work. On other occasions, I tried to find something good about the new situation and I hoped that maybe we will have some interesting people around the office instead of all the boring Indians that landed at JFK totally clueless about life in America.

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