This is a question that is very frequently asked by women along with techniques to seduce a man. There is no denying that complete satisfaction should be an integral part of any relationship. As our research has demonstrated, men who are not emotionally and physically satisfied with their partner are highly likely to seek both elsewhere, resulting in cheating.  So by recognizing this,  you have taken the first step in having a healthy and happy relationship with your partner.   Tim Rassiter, the author of the widely acclaimed book "How to drive your man wild" says, "If you want to have your man eating out of your hands, we suggest a change in attitude.  Attitude is everything."  (Related article:  Finding a middle ground during disputes in a relationship)

In order to satisfy your man, there are a few things you must do:

• Have a conversation with your partner.  I have found that when couples do not communicate, most of the problems start.  So even if you find a topic uncomfortable, for example, his preferences, you must listen to him.  Otherwise, he will be tempted to find someone else.  

• Keep an open mind.  Yes, as you have a right to pick and choose what type of intimacy you like and want, so does he.  The goal is to make sure that both of you can come to a compromise so that none of you is either miserable (because you hate a particular activity or is not getting what you want) or is tempted to find another partner.  You will need to make compromises, of course.  No loving partner will force you or do something that you do not enjoy but most activities can be enjoyed by couples without pain.  While sometimes men might come across as selfish and ruthless that is not the case in reality.  Kara Oh, the cultural anthropologist and author of the book "Men made easy" says, "A man doesn’t usually pay much attention to his relationship. Either it works or it doesn’t...Much of what he does and how he reacts is a variety of automatic responses––such as needing to succeed, to solve problems, and how easily he’s excited."  Or in other words, if you know what to do to win a man, you can make him do what you really want.  (Related article:  Finding common ground in a relationship)

• While some activities can be painful unless proper precautions are used, they can actually be a lot of fun.  You must let your inhibitions and biases go away and give it a try.  There is nothing dirty about anything.   

• Men are very visual creatures and there is no easier way to please them than to please their eyes.  So make sure that you wear only the finest lingerie in the bedroom.  Of course, this does not mean that you can ignore how you look at other times.  In fact 80% of men in our survey said that they rate looks and style very high when they fantasize about their partner.   

• Become a student, again.  Learn from books, videos and websites where you can find excellent information.  Talk to your girlfriends for tips and advice.  And there is no harm in asking your partner to also be your teacher.  If he has all this experience, he will be delighted to teach you.

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