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 Here is one such situation
in which mature woman has a relationship with a
younger
man. Working with our client base in the US, we have found that it is
clearly becoming a major
trend: mature women dating younger men and marrying too as the
marriage of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore has shown (Kucher says
marrying Moore was "the smartest thing I've ever done; it required no
thought at all."). There are reports
that Kate Moss is dating Jamie Burke - a man 11 years younger than
her. Marla, one of our
readers, is 42 and dating a 22-year old. Her children are 20 and
17, but she is going steady with her younger boyfriend. "My
children have had issues with this and so have my parents. What is the big
deal? I have been married four times to others that have been nothing but trouble and I have now found someone who loves me for who I am and not what I look like. Why can't people just leave
us alone?" she asks.
It sounds odd to some people
simply because it was not so common in the past. However, as we said in our previous article
"Forties are the new
thirties", women are not only feeling younger, they are also acting younger and men are accepting
them in their new personalities. And there is even a new term for
such women: cougars. While
Sheryl Crow may not like the
term, but after dating a senior man (Rod Stewart), she has had
relationships with two younger men - Owen Wilson and Lance Armstrong.
(Related: How to talk
about your younger boyfriend?)
Our patron, Nancy, writes, "I am in a difficult situation. I am 35 and in love with a 20 year old male. He likes me too but is so afraid of the age
difference. Because of that I lied and told him I was 30. We both feel the same way about each other. He is intelligent,
has a good head on his shoulders, great sense of humor, etc. We have so much in common. But the age
gap has really taken a toll on us. If only it were easier. He's embarrassed to tell his parents and friends about me. I'm on my own and have a steady job. He's still at home. By the way, the age
difference is really hard on me. I hate thinking about my age. I get so upset when
I have to tell people I'm 35. I know it's part of life but it really sucks. I
don't even look my age or sound it, so it's easy to say I'm a different age."
(Related:
How to
seduce a younger man)
Let us discuss this situation in several parts since this is quite complex. One, what should a
mature woman do if she is attracted to a younger male and what should a male do if he is
attracted to an older
woman. In the second part, let us briefly touch on the subject of lying about your age while dating, and finally, let us talk about how to look, feel, and behave as a young person so that you can not only attract a younger man, you can also keep up with him.
Next
article: What happens when you are
attracted to someone younger than you?
Related links: Joy
of dating a mature man or woman Challenges
of dating mature women
Mature
woman seduces a young man Younger
women dating mature men
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