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Romance and relationships in Singapore
Culture is changing due to Japanese influence

By MYNIPPON Team

In our series of interviews with Loletta Michelle, we followed up with her to talk about relationships in Singapore, her own relationship, and her perspectives on Japanese men and women. (Related articles: Loletta Michelle on impact of Japanese fashion and style on Singapre, Lolette Michelle causes a scandal in Singapore, and finally, Loletta Michelle talks about herself and her boyfriend)

MYNIPPON:  When we interviewed you last time we were starting to hear your thoughts on Japanese men.  Please tell us what you and other Singaporean people think of Japanese men?

Loletta: To most Singaporean girls, the mention of Japanese men would mean the funkiness and charm of Takuya Kimura and other typical J-pop bands, cute, sweet, boyish, etc. Personally, from my experience, I feel that most Japanese men are still pretty much a chauvinistic lot.

MYNIPPON:  We know that you, as well as other Singaporean women, closely follow what Japanese women are up to.  But apart from that, what is your impression of Japanese women?

Loletta: Japanese women are the epitome of class, sophistication and trendsetters to most Asians.  They dress well, put layers of make-up, and exude a style of classiness. I feel that a typical Japanese woman knows how to take care of her physical well-being. They are so detailed about their appearance it is almost hard to spot sloppy Japanese women on the street. I got to agree with the notion that they do doll up themselves painstakingly just to look presentable before stepping out of the house. All I can say is that I have to hand it to them for their trouble to go through the morning rituals of cleansing up their skin thoroughly and dolling up with makeup. In Singapore, the weather is so hot and humid that even the thought of applying thick makeup is a turnoff, although some local girls here do not appear to mind the feel of sticky, oily foundation residing on their faces.  

MYNIPPON:  Let us talk about relationships in Singapore.  A general observation of Japan, its magazines, TV, movies, or its people creates an impression that relationships in Japan are just wonderful.  A vast number of people, on the other hand, tend to think of Singapore as a dull society – which is probably again not accurate either.  We understand that your opinion on this subject are likely to represent your own life but please tell us more about relationships in general in Singapore?

Loletta: Singapore comprises of a majority of the Chinese race. Having the mentality of a typical conservative Chinese, women are brought up to believe that they should be discreet in anything related to their relationships. Hence, we appear to be ‘dull’. Any woman can tell you that she’s not too much into her relationships or would brush away the question on relationships, as if she has been offended.  However, if probed deeper, only she knows what she is fully capable of. As more and more young liberal Singaporean women are opening up, you can see the change here.  Chinese women are a pretty wild lot in bed; it’s just that we don’t like to reveal it or even hint at it. I am no exception either. I was brought up in a pretty conservative society - yet not too strict.   I don’t know at what age I started to liberalize but I do know that I had a potential to be something bigger.  

MYNIPPON:  As you might be aware, conversations related to relationships are not a taboo in Japan.  Almost all magazines and late night TV programs keep talking about relationships endlessly.  What is the situation in Singapore?  

Loletta: It’s funny how Singaporean women feel as if they are feminists.  Don’t be surprised to find some local men and women still touchy on the subject of relationships. You just got to know the crowd before you can even start on the jokes. Usually it’s the men who bond together and talk about relationships and the girls about fashion, make up and the latest trends.

MYNIPPON:  There are several stories of how adultery is more easily accepted in Japan than other parts of the world.  Adultery is fairly common in Japan as well and both men and women can go to a variety of clubs or just call a phone number to find short-term romance.  What is the attitude towards adultery in Singapore?

Loletta:  Singapore women take it very, very seriously.  Even emotional betrayal (boyfriend/husband fall for someone else) is not spared. I do know for a fact here that if a guy commits adultery, the girl either takes sweet revenge after the breakup or starts a night-long session of quarrels and fights before breaking up in most cases.  

MYNIPPON:  If Japanese people could learn something from Singaporeans or other Asians regarding relationships, what would that be?

Loletta: Do the Japanese even need to?

MYNIPPON:  We would guess that you have a very healthy and exciting relationships?  Would you and your boyfriend consider yourself an exception?

Loletta: Yes, you guessed it right - I do have a very rich, healthy and exciting relationship.

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