I worked in Manitoba one week as an exotic dancer, where no one had big sizes. Well... no one really HAD anything. Every girl on the lineup was an A to B cup.  What's my point?  Do you know how much money I made that week? It was great! Not once did I feel self-conscious onstage with my bra off, not once did I see guys turning to each other and whispering and laughing, not once did I get asked, "So, when are you going to get plastic surgery?"  (Related article:  So should you choose silicone implants?)

It's not that I wish every girl had A-cups. I don't know if the guys really even *noticed* that we were all small.  Probably some guys did, and there are some in every crowd, but most of the audience didn't seem to be too bothered by it.  It's not even so much that I wish I had bigger ones - often I do, but a lot of the time I'm happy with what I have. I mean, I have this big rear, I think if I had a little bigger bust, maybe my body would be a little better in balance. Unfortunately because of my job I often have to undress and cannot even wear an enhancer bra (and the so-called Natural Bra) that does a terrific job for most women who would like that fuller look once in a while.  It would not feel as if I was falling backwards. And I'd probably have an easier time finding nice bras to fit me.  It is interesting that only a few retailers carry bras for us.     

No, it's not either of those things. Not at all. I wish the male species in general had a little more tolerance.  That week showed me something. No one complained that we were small. For example, I know that among Oriental women, even an average western girl is considered 'voluptuous' (when everyone around has really small frames) or if a girl with just 32C can easily earn you the title of being busty), she is immediately sought after as a girlfriend, model, or whatever else that she can do where these can prove to be an asset.  (Related article:  Tips on wearing well fitted bras)

The problem with men is that they do complain when they have a bigger pair to compare them with. What's up with that?  Then why the intolerance every other week?  I don't really have a concrete answer for this. Maybe it's their insecurities; they want to make me feel inadequate, because that's how they feel.   Male ego? Yeah, probably.  Maybe it's the "bigger is better" attitude. Hmmm. that doesn't make sense in *MY* eyes.  (Related article:  Breast augmentation)