How to catch a cheat?

Tips to get the proof of an adulterous spouse or partner

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston says that if you suspect that your special someone is cheating, the best time to catch a cheat is around the Valentine's Day.   After all it is the time when romantics demonstrate their love to each other and shower gifts on them. She says, "Any cheating husband or boyfriend who wants to stay in his lover's good graces, (and in her bed) has to buy her a gift. More than likely that gift will be delivered in person -- if not on Valentine's Day, then the day after or the day before."

So what can you do to catch an adulterous spouse? If you have been desperately trying to get the evidence on your own and have failed, then Houston says, it may be time to hire a private investigator to follow your mate so that you can then confront your cheating partner with the proof.  "You're almost certain to get the proof you need at a fraction of the usual cost. Since you only need the investigator's services for 1 to 3 days, you can avoid running up a big bill," she advises.  (Related:  Cheating confessions and Christian relationship)

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More Ways to Cut Costs Houston further advises, "You can further reduce your costs to a few hours time, if you can pinpoint the window of opportunity when your spouse or significant other is most likely to make contact with his or her lover - lunch time, before work, after work, late at night when they think you're asleep. You probably already have a pretty good idea of when that might be."