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How to let go of your ex?
The longer you hang on, the slower the healing
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Harry
broke up with his
girlfriend after a
very
intense relationship of three years. She
wanted her space
and he gave it to her. "While I want to
move on
and
date other women, she still calls me from day to day
keeping conversations with me so that's what confuses me
sometimes because I used to think of it as
she was trying to work things out and wanted to
get back
together with me. She does not visit me and is not interested
in sexual relations either but keeps
calling me. How do I leave her alone if she still wants to
talk to me on the
phone? She wanted her space, I gave it to
her, but she wouldn't let me go.
Please help!" he writes. |
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Something is definitely not right with her and
it seems that she is dealing with her own issues. Since she
was the one who first asked you to leave her
alone, you can simply tell her that you too would like to be
left alone as well while she makes up her mind about what she wants to
do about the
relationship. I
think, like you, she too is having difficulty
moving on. |
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Right now she is calling the shots -
if she tells you 3 months later that she is simply not
interested in even talking to you, what are you left
with?
Months of wasted time while you could be
pursuing
another woman. The best thing, therefore, would be tell
her that as she deals with her issues, (you would
still be able to speak to her occasionally as a friend
so that you come across as a monster) but as you are
starting to
date again, it is not wise to speak
daily or even often. You can mention that only
couples talk
daily and now that you are no longer a
couple (and it is
best not to be
friends with an ex), talking
daily is not helping either one of you in moving on.
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