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How to find great dates with minimal effort?
Try smart dating
Remember Will
Smith as Alex “Hitch” Hitchens in the movie Hitch? He
helps his clients
get dates, do
better while on the date, and eventually
find long-lasting relationships. So could
Lance
Mason be the relationship guru in the same league.
Well, he does have some great ideas about dating and is
not afraid to criticize the myths that prevail.
How to connect to any woman? |
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Go
talk to her... now. When you see an
attractive woman, talk to her immediately. "Every
woman wants a
man with the confidence to approach her, so this
simple step will put you miles ahead of the competition."
In other words, don't assume anything. If she is not
looking or is not interested, what is the worst thing that
can happen? Just don't do anything stupid and then it will
be easy to politely excuse yourself (e.g. if her
boyfriend/husband shows up).
Be
playful.
Boring isn't attractive. Take the approach that she's an
old friend. Relax, have fun, and she will, too. "You are a
fun guy around your friends, right? Act the same way with
her." Great tips for those
guys who are shy around women but are perfectly normal
in the company of friends and family members. |
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Show
your sensitive side. Now that you've had some
laughs and won her
 over,
it's time to get to know her. Get below the
surface by sharing personal stories. "You can't go
wrong by being genuine. Most men are
terrified of doing this, but it's what women
crave. It's how they connect."
Never
get a phone number.
Get a date instead. Phone numbers are a waste
of your time. Women often give out numbers but
then screen calls. "If you can't
convince her to make a date when you're face
to face, you'll have even less of a chance later
by phone or e-mail." |
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Never
go to a movie on your
first date. You can't get to know a woman if she's
watching a movie or anything else in which it is not about
the two of you but something else - a distraction.
Never
ask a woman what she wants to do. Always lead. Women hate
a man who's wishy washy.
Never
plan long dates; in fact, the shorter the better while you
are getting to know each other. This also makes it easier
to do free things and not feel the pressure to
spend money on her. |
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