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Men wearing women's underwear
How to confess to their woman?
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Mark,
who enjoys
wearing feminine underwear, writes, "I want to come
out and admit I
wear women's underwear. I am just a regular guy and
love women but this is something that I love to do. How
would I approach this subject with a woman?"
I am
just going to give a detailed answer and explain all the
options since you have not given me much information.
If you are a
crossdresser (dress in complete women's outfits and
makeup) and do so frequently.
If you are in a
relationship, sit down and calmly explain what the
situation is. Also give her an opportunity to digest
the information and to do whatever she feels like.
Tell her that you won't judge her for her decision and
she shouldn't either. If you are not in a
relationship, then for
future relationships, it is
best to be upfront about it. Doing it in secret would
be stressful and chances are you can
find a woman who will support you.
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If you frequently wear full set of
women's
underwear (bra,
panties,
stockings, etc.) under a man's clothes.
I would say that do the same as above if
you are in a
serious relationship. If you are in a
casual relationship and do not dress everyday, there is
nothing to do right now. There is a possibility that your
situation may change.
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If you frequently wear panties for a long
period of time, including going to work.
Many men who have written to us say that
they first approached it by jokingly telling their partner
about her
panties being so attractive and how you want to try them
on if she doesn't mind. If she freaks out, you have to stop
and decide whether you want to be with that person. If she
is fine with that, then just go ahead and tell her that you
like it. Do it occasionally from then on but keep her
involved by showing her when you wear and asking her to go
shopping with you. What freaks out women is that she starts
to wonder
if you are gay and that she will lose you. As long as
she understands that you are just a regular guy who happens
to like them for comfort, feel, and design choices, many
find it normal.
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If you occasionally like to
wear panties.
Probably there is no reason to come
out if you have even the slightest doubt that things
could go wrong in your relationship. If you are very
comfortable in your relationship then you can
playfully tell her like in the example above and
hopefully it will enhance your relationship.
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And by the way, we
like to know how things turn out for people like Mark, how
they deal with such situations, what worked, what didn't work,
etc. That is the only way we can help other people in your
situation. So please
share your
story with us (and we promise never to disclose your
identity). Recommended:
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