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So
much attention has been paid to lingerie for
women, that we
complete forgot the men. Yes,
we know that men are far more visual than women and we are more
emotional than men. But it is simply not true that we can get aroused simply
because we like the guy or are too emotional about all the
wonderful things that he does for us.
Of course, a physically fit guy is a big attraction to us, but it is equally
important how that masculine body is packaged.
So we are talking about how he shows up in the bedroom.
John in Philadelphia knows what I am talking about. When I
interviewed him, he answered, "Too often men are told to put aside their
appearance and bottle their desires to look attractive to women. We too like to feel that we are desirable much like a woman feels when wearing lingerie.
I wear thong underwear with some regularity and
thong swimwear when the occasion is right and enjoy the flattering looks and glances I receive."
(Related:
Men's
underwear)
It
is simply not acceptable for us women to see men walk into the
bedroom or slide in bed with a $5 T-shirt and boxers.
Women who would tolerate that are either all dead or have
yet to get a taste of what difference lingerie can make on
men.
Men are absolutely wrong to think that "size" is all
what women are after.
In fact, we found that most women did not care about it
at all. Did I say
that we are basically baskets of emotions floating on a sea of
charm? What we care
about most is the "experience." It includes all that is said and done and how.
That is
where the lingerie comes in.
It can make all the difference in a woman's
arousal, how
strong the climax is, and if we want to be in the bedroom with
him again.
Here
are the absolute NO’s:
- Cheap
T-shirts. Some
women do not mind high-quality cotton undershirts if well
coordinated with the overall attire
- Cheap
boxers
- Shorts
- Sweat
pants
Ideal
bedroom outfit for men
A
robe is a must for men. Not
only does it allow a man to create a sense of mystery about what
is inside, it also makes him look elegant and stylish.
Plus, it tells us that regardless of how he sleeps when
he is alone, he has taken care to dress for us.
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