On the other hand all those guys who always cheated in school, rarely came to class, and then partied all the time in university have a great time practically every night.  So it is not that women like bad boys; it is just that these boys know what a woman wants because they have worked on it themselves. (Related article:  How to find a soul mate?)

My experience from talking to women, men, and couples has shown that women do not necessarily seek rich or handsome guys all the time.  Of course, when they are ready to marry someone, they want to know what he makes, how much wealth he has, what his future looks like, and such but when it comes to just friendship or light romance or one-night stand, they look for something else.  If you drive a Porsche or wear Armani suits or have a million dollars in the bank it does not matter if you are essentially a bore.  While a girl might come to you once in a while to rip you off but more often than not she will go with a guy who makes her feel special by the attention he pays to her, entertains her by his jokes, charms her by his chivalry, and brings her to a point of no return.

To some men these skills come naturally or they learned them early on.  Maybe their father or elder brother taught them how to charm girls or they learned on their own by trial and error.  But a vast majority of men have to learn these skills.  In fact it is easier to learn these through a structured program than to through hit and trial.  In my opinion, it is fairly easy to learn the techniques of approaching women, behaving in a confident manner, saying the right things, and then taking control of the situation till the girl is virtually your slave.  I am sure that those of you who have had this experience know what I mean.  This is a point at which you do not have to call her because she does even before you expect.  In fact you have to decline intimacy because you do not have the time or energy.  So get your act together and do let me know how you make out.