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Couples
and intimacy
How
to please each other
By Pierre
Coda
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I said in my previous article, most of us learned about
intimacy through trial and error. Now I do not mind trial and
error techniques if you are trying to discover a cure for
AIDS or make cars run on water. Probably, someone is
paying for the research and the rewards will justify the
investment. When it comes to intimacy, though, a person should be
able to use reliable information.
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Let
me say this: Human beings are like any other species when it
comes to intimacy. They do figure it out themselves since
Nature has provided all the mechanisms. But what
differentiates us from other animals? The capability
to learn from others, to try different things, to improvise
on what others have done, and to have it not only for
procreation but to please our bodies and souls. That
is when my favorite author Michael
Webb comes in. (Related:
First time
sex)Michael,
who is an expert in the area of relationships and
romance, has put
together another remarkable
book 500
Lovemaking Tips and Secrets. This book does not
make physical intimacy sound like studying rocket science. What he
has provided there are ready-to-use tips and suggestions
based on his research and experience. Another thing
that I like about his approach is that you do not need to go
shopping to increase the quality of your sex life.
Most of the things that he suggests are probably right there
in your home. For example, ice cubes, toiletry items,
children's toys, etc. Making
love is both a physical and biochemical experience.
Have you ever experienced that you could be in the company
of the most desirable partner but still not be able to
perform? Or you could be turned off by even the most
attractive person because he or she did not smell the right
way? We have
intimacy not only with our private organs but also
all our five senses: eyes, ears, skin, tongue, and
nose. Michael not only points out what to do with each
one of them to enhance your experience but also what
not to do, e.g. not eat certain foods prior to intimacy or
wear certain fragrances to stimulate the flow of the right
body chemicals.
Recommended
links: How to learn the
art of seduction Physical
intimacy and relationships Share
your secrets with your lover
How
to have variety in sex? |
