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At the present, there are several famous Masters in Japan. Some of them are: Imai Kazuo, Oniroku Dam, Chiba Sensei, Mai Randa etc. Currently Japanese television and art establishments use famous actresses or idols to demonstrate this art. The art form looks cruel and inhumane at first sight. But we have to remember one fact - when talking about
Japanese Bondage - no Japanese woman is forced to do it. They do it freely and enjoy it. The
Nawashi can have the greatest skill possible and the amount of rope necessary to tie up a woman, but without the woman, there is no art.
Japanese women, just like the
Nawashi, think binding a woman frees her soul. How is this possible? In Japan, it is said and believed that
bondage,
submission and
humiliation frees a woman. To understand this contradiction, you must remember that the Japanese are a very hardworking people, life is short, and all Japanese live stressful lives.
Shibari is used as a tool to break free from stress and the daily routine of a simple, normal woman.
In addition to this, we can analyze the importance of
Shibari in relation to the attitude of the modern woman in Japan. At
present time, there are no more Geishas left. Feminism and equality of the genders in Japan is standard practice though it still lags the rest of the developed world. Many women know deep inside that it is not good to abandon traditional roles and that is why, when these women find a good
Nawashi, they let themselves be punished by him. The
Nawashi in Japan say that the best Doreis or
M-jo are proud women with great
self-esteem, because when they are bound and humiliated, they free their egotistical selves and are left with their biological truth.
At present,
Shibari and Nawakesho (ropes as a cosmetic tool) exist. I believe that
Shibari is one of the best tools and an endless source of pleasure for both men and women. The Nawashi finds bondage and humiliation empowering. I personally recommend the practice of this
art form when used with knowledge, wisdom and respect.
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