Results/effects of adultery (How to catch a cheat?) on the unfaithful person...

• In his/her guilt he/she may resign his high profile job/position or be under pressure to do so in order to maintain moral standards.

• You may get demoted or expelled, if you work for certain type of organizations.

• You may be too ashamed to face the world and decide to commit suicide.

• You may go into depression or keep a low profile hoping it will die down.

• If you are a high-profile personality, the press will splash it on their front page.

• People who looked up to you will lose respect for you.

• Your world will become dark and you will hope the ground will open up and swallow you.

Adultery in whatever form is always disastrous. If one can’t be faithful to his wife or partner, how can s/he be faithful in her/his job, dealings with others, finances, etc? If you can be faithful in simple things of life, then I believe someone will notice and appreciate and you will receive greater responsibilities and rewards one day.  To a great extent, yes, it’s your life and you can do what you like, but you are not alone on the planet; so it means you have a duty and a role to play in how you deal with others.  (Related article:  Clues of a man cheating online)

Believe me, we all owe somebody something...

• You owe a greeting and a smile to your wife, children and neighbor.

• You owe an apology when you are late for an appointment, knock over somebody accidentally, etc.

• You owe a smile to someone who is sad.

• You owe a greeting to the guard that opens the gate for you every morning.

• You owe a hand to an old lady trying to get on a bus or carrying heavy parcels home.

• You owe a meal to someone you know is hungry.

• You owe faithfulness to your partner, neighbor, employer and society.

• If your life is blessed, you owe doing good to someone who is less privileged.

• If you say you will do something or make a promise, do it. When you don’t do it, you owe an explanation.

No man is an island; we all need each other and what we do today, we will receive tomorrow. But don’t do things in order to get something back; do it out of a generous heart and see what a fulfilled life you will lead. Think about others before your self sometimes and in your distress someone will think about you.   Life is not just about you, and I or me, but us and we.

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