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I think
that declining rates in marriage is a global phenomenon and
is not limited to Japan. It is a very natural
progression we are going through right now and with
increased globalization, it will not be surprising to see
this trend spreading to many of the previously less
developed countries around the world.
Come
2010, there will indeed be less marriages or marriage at later
ages. But more so, I see the trend of
cross-cultural marriages
emerge. In Singapore, it is not difficult to spot
couples of
different races or nationalities walking down busy Orchard
Road (a popular shopping belt). Being a metropolitan city,
people from all over culminate in our tiny island for various
purposes ranging from work to leisure.
However, this
trend is not new to Singapore. Historically, Singapore has
seen cross-cultural marriages between Malays and Chinese
(forming the unique Peranakan culture where males are
known as Babas and females Nonyas). Due to our
former status as an English colony, marriages between
Europeans and Singaporeans are not rare. Thus, we have a good
number of Eurasians here as well.
With the constant exposure
to cultures all over the world through advance mass media such
as the Internet and films, our young people today gain easy
access to friends everywhere and this will only serve to
encourage marriage across cultures and national boundaries.
Singapore
Government has recently embarked on a program to encourage
Singaporeans to marry early and give birth to help balance our
aging and declining population. When the policy kicks into
place with its many incentives, I foresee that marriages in
Singapore will not decrease so much as it will in the more
advanced nations.
Females all
over the world are placing their careers on a higher pedestal
and this is understandable. After all, there is a higher
standard of education nowadays and women are no longer
contented to playing docile, domestic roles. There is a demand
for independence and respect in all aspects of life.
There is
almost a renewed set of values in the young women today and
soon, we will see this take effect on their choice of
marriage. Men with lower education or wages or even taste for
the finer things in life (come on, let's get real!!) will
definitely lose out as women speak out and make their demands
known. The fight for equality never ends.
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